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Lingering Feelings for my old affair partner

My problem might seem small compared to everyone else's, but I still need help. Two years ago, a relationship ended very badly. I know it couldn't have ended differently, because it was an affair, and I wasn't ready to leave my husband. I have finally forgiven my lover, but don't talk to him anymore, and I still miss him. Things are getting back to status quo with my husband (who never found out, by the way), but I still have these lingering feelings for my ex-lover. How do I get over these feelings? It's been two years, and I know I shouldn't obsess over him like this.

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